I am 24 years old. I live in McKinney, Texas with
my fiance Billy Wood Jr.
God and family are very important to me.
I graduated with honors in 2005 from
McKinney North High School. Two weeks later, I was unfortunately in a serious
car accident which left me paralyzed from the chest down. The impact of the
crash caused my neck to break at my C6 vertebrae and my spinal cord to
bruise. As a result, I am quadriplegic and have spinal cord injury. Despite the
circumstances, I still have a heart and soul that enjoys life. I have been shown
all that life offers and have been given a new sense of appreciation. I am
incredibly grateful for the amazing, supportive, and willing family that God has
blessed me with. They go above and beyond every day and in everything they do.
And after all that we have been through, my fiance Billy still wants to be with
me. God's grace is amazingly abundant.
God has
blessed me with a second chance at life and I am determined to not let Him down.
Through the past six years, I have learned a lot and grown in unspeakable ways.
I have learned that everything I have been given is a blessing. I have learned
that the abilities to see, smell, breathe, speak, taste, eat, hear, move, and
feel deserve praise. As I laid in the hospital bed with only one ability - the
ability to see - I for once was able to stop being so selfish and realize how
blessed I was. I unfortunately never realized it before then but it was what I
needed. I had been living life without God and not giving Him any recognition.
What I have learned above all else is who my God is. He is there and has
been there for me since the beginning. He is my Creator. He is my provider and
protector. He loves me more than I could possibly imagine.
And He will see me
through this.
“Blessed is the one whom God
corrects; so do not despise the discipline of the
Almighty. For he wounds, but he also binds up; he
injures, but his hands also heal” (Job 5:17-18).
"But he
said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my
power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will
boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that
Christ's power may rest on me" (2 Corinthians 12:9).
My experiences these last six years have
influenced me to pursue a social work degree. I have been going to Collin College
since 2004 and finally obtained an Associate's degree of Liberal Arts in May
2011. After that, I plan to obtain a Bachelor's of Social Work and a Master's of
Counseling specializing in Substance Abuse and Addiction. I enjoy school and
have been very active in the student body. I am a member of
the Phi Theta Kappa International Honor Society alumni, the National Society of
Leadership and Success alumni, and
I served two terms on the
Student Activity Fee Assessment Committee (SAFAC).
The summer of 2009 marked a time in
my life that I finally felt emotionally ready to speak about my
accident, struggles, and new found faith. Since the winter of 2009, I
have been speaking for MADD at Victim Impact Panels to teens and
adults and at Blue Ridge High School, Hebron High School, Sam
Houston High School, and Collin College.
When presented the opportunity, I will also speak to church youth
groups.
This was my story at a MADD Teen
VIP in June 2010.
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I love the
Dallas Mavericks and
the Dallas Cowboys!
Billy and I had a chance to go to a game in 2006. It was so
fun and we had great seats!
Food is my passion. I don't discriminate. My
favorite is Asian food, Olive Garden, and La Madeline.
When I was in high school, I loved art class. I got interested in any and
everything artistic.
I loved drawing and painting thanks to my art teacher Mrs. Kessler and Leon, a
friend of the family.
You all highlight my day and even my week
when I see you.
My most missed memory is going to my
Grandma's
house. When I used to spend the night at her house, she would cook me up a HUGE
meal AND give me a slimfast shake as my drink! She sadly died in1998 when I was 10
years old from breast and bone cancer.
My cousin
Karie
also passed when I was young, in 2000. Her, her boyfriend, and their baby
Zachary
were found horribly murdered. She was very close to us. Her death and the
terrible circumstances which it occurred still gives me chills.
The man on the left
is my boyfriend's Papaw,
Mel. I
remember
going to Billy's house and his Memaw & Papaw would always come
over to spend time with us and eat. He was a very sweet man and loved Johnny Cash!
On the right
is my mom with her sister, Becky
and her brother, Marty
with my Grandpa.
My Grandpa died in 2006 from bladder cancer. This was the last time we were all
together. I remember he was so happy. We were celebrating his birthday. I remember always
exploring outside when we would go see him. He lived on a farm with roosters,
ducks, guineas, turkeys, cows,
pigs, dogs, cats. . . it was always so fun at his house. He always watched Young &
the Restless and was a big Dallas Cowboys fan.
I
have a lot of good memories from school, but also many bad memories. We had 3
deaths in my graduating class, whom all I knew. I was actually close to each one
of them. There was the murders of Austin York
and Matt Self
(also 2 others were murdered that happened to be related to friends of mine) all
in one incident. I
knew Austin since elementary school and Matt was always in a class of mine in
high school. Then there was another classmate of mine,
Tyler Davis
who was killed in a car crash. Both Matt and Tyler were in my Pre-Calculus class
that year. I completely broke down when I first entered that class after each
accident.
“The
Lord looks down from heaven on all mankind to see if
there are any who are wise, who want to please God" (Psalm 14:2, LB).
“The thought of my pain and my
homelessness is bitter poison. I think of it constantly,
and my spirit is depressed. Yet hope returns when I
remember this one thing: The Lord’s unfailing love and
mercy still continue, fresh as the morning, as sure as
the sunrise. The Lord is all I have, so in him I put my
hope” (Lamentations 3:19-26; TEV).
“The earnest prayer of a righteous
person has great power and produces wonderful results”
(James 5:16b, NLT).
“There's nothing like the written
Word of God for showing you the way to salvation through
faith in Christ Jesus. Every part of Scripture is
God-breathed and useful one way or another—showing us
truth, exposing our rebellion, correcting our mistakes,
training us to live God's way. Through the Word we are
put together and shaped up for the tasks God has for us”
(2 Timothy 3:15-17, MSG).
"And this small and temporary
trouble we suffer will bring us a tremendous and eternal
glory, much greater than the trouble. For we fix our
attention, not on things that are seen, but on things
that are unseen. What can be seen lasts only for a time,
but what cannot be seen lasts forever" (2 Corinthians
4:17-18, TEV).
Habakkuk 1:5 – “Look
at the nations and watch— and be utterly amazed. For I am going to
do something in your days that you would not believe, even if you
were told.”